What the hell have I done?!!
ByHave you ever jumped in, made a choice only to immediately think, “What the heck have I done! I’m going to try, fail miserably and watch my entire life go down the drain!!!“
And then immense panic sinks in…
I KNOW I’m not alone. It happens to me every time I made a choice, especially relating to my business.
- I felt that way when I created my first website and was thinking of all the people who said I’d fail and look like an idiot.
- I felt that way when I cut back hours at my side-job to make more time for my business.
- I felt that way when I launched my first program (and every program after that.)
- I felt that way when I handed in my 2 weeks notice at my side-job
- I felt that way when I signed up for my first 10 km ‘marathon’
- I felt that way when I published my first book.
The truth is, I go through my life filled with moment-to-moment terror! And I handle it by realizing that I will be okay. I’ve never starved because of a bad decision. I’ve never been homeless. And I’ve never been thrown in jail.
The reality is, it’s all good.
If you’ve EVER had thoughts of complete terror:
- “How am I ever going to get through this? My husband of 19 years wants a divorce.”
- “My life is a mess of debt and I have 2 little kids, how will I manage?”
- “How can I possible turn my life around after suffering complete financial devastation?”
- “I’m completely hopeless and destined to fail in any business I start”.
- “My life is falling apart and others people are doing great. Why is it so easy for them?”
Trust me, I may not have filed for divorce or bankruptcy, but at 20 years old I was pretty much as low as you could go. I was forced out of my apartme
nt by 2 bullying roommates, dumped by my boyfriend of 3 years and had no where to go. I think the saddest point of my life was when I wrote him a letter (I was too afraid or rejection to ask him to his face) pleading for him to move in with me so I could escape the abuse I was facing at my own apartment, and I couldn’t afford rent on my own. He didn’t even reply to my letter. I was devastated and desperate. I was also completely alone.
That same year I was mugged, in two car accidents, and diagnosed with depression and panic disorder (I wonder why) and the migraines began. Even writing this (I’ve never shared this before) my hands are shaking, remembering that period of my life and my head is screaming: What the heck are you doing?!! You’re ‘supposed’ to be an expert who has it all together!
I’m lucky. The only thing that saved me at that point was my amazing parents.
Slowly things started to change. A few years later I had fully recouped, and had everything that looked like a perfect life…but I was still seeking something. I still had the same old fears of rejection and failure. Believe me, I’ve been to
the lowest point a human could go AND STILL COME OUT ALIVE.
So I ‘get’ the fear.
I’ve also managed to build up a resilience that few people have and between my real-life experience and my psychology training, I KNOW how to get yourself out of that ugly place.
I‘m hosting a 75 minute content-filled call on April 20th where I share my system for moving past fear and failure and persevere when you feel like giving up.
Fearless Failure:
How to rise above paralyzing fear, make bold decisions and find success every time
8pm Eastern/5pm Pacific on April 20th, 2011
There is no charge for this call. It’s my GIFT to you, because I know how important it is for you to feel comfortable and in control of your life, especially in times of trial and uncertainty.
Sign up and you will not be disappointed.
You will come away with:
- Steps to simple resilience, that is, how to bounce back from absolutely ANYTHING.
- Why a major catastrophe is always perfectly time AND how to turn it into the opportunity you’ve been waiting for.
- The #1 thing you must do first. BEFORE you do anything else.
- The EXACT mantra I give to my clients who are suffering, grieving or depressed. It works every single time to help them see a new perspective.
It’s all happening APRIL 20 at 8pm ET / 5pm PT. To join me for this call, just go to the following page, register and we’ll send you the details right away:
Here’s where you can learn more and register for this high-content coaching call at no-charge .
Really, You don’t have to feel alone, devestated or rejected any longer. I’ve been there. I got out. I will guide you out, too.
Love & Light,
Kim
Author of, The Now of Happiness: Your Official Happiness Formula
http://thenowofhappinessbook.com
Here’s where you can learn more and register for this high-content coaching call at no-charge .



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